【The Power of Decision】For people who are confused about life.

Why do we get lost in life?

Don’t you ever wish that you could move toward your goals without getting lost?

In this article, I would like to share with you how to motivate yourself to move forward toward your ideal, even in the face of adversity.

I hope that by reading this article, you will become a person who can make decisions, that you will be able to move closer to your dreams by becoming less confused in life, and that you will no longer be afraid of failure.

The Power of Decision

Your life depends on what decisions you make

There is nothing more empty than a life without any change in the way we live.

People want to change. It is a latent desire that exists even if the person is not aware of it.

In order to obtain new changes and results, new actions are required. And that action is born from your decision.

In other words, making a decision is the power to make a change.

People change when they make decisions.

In life, there are always new choices, new actions, and new results. And everything is determined by the accumulation of your decisions.

It is no exaggeration to say that our destiny is driven by our own decisions. However, most of us live our lives without knowing this.

The truth is that your destiny is not determined by the environment you live in, but by your own daily decisions.

The person you are today is a result of the decisions you have made

What to do, what to give up, what to believe, what not to believe. Who you meet, what you eat, what time you go to bed.

Your life is completely controlled by your own decisions. Of course, if you are a child who is not yet old enough to make decisions for yourself, your parents or other adults who are with you will play a role.

If you are not satisfied with your current life, if you sincerely want to change your life, the most important thing is to think deeply and make a clear decision about what you are living for and what you are going to do.

That being said, I think there are many people who don’t think they can change at all even if they make a decision.

That is an honest feeling, and I understand it. But that is not the kind of decision I am talking about here.

What is the real decision

The decision we are talking about here is a decision in the truest sense of the word. In other words, a decision is a choice without hesitation.

There is a difference between hopes and desires and decisions. For example, a person may say that he or she has decided to stop smoking. However, at this point, they are still just thinking about quitting smoking.

A person who has made a real decision is one who is committed to it from that point on, and is able to think about cutting off all other possibilities.

They don’t have the option of giving up, they have decided that this is the only way to live, that they will do whatever it takes.

If you believe that this is the only way to live, you won’t have any worries or hesitations about what to do if you fail. If you believe that this is the only way to live, you will not have to worry about what to do if you fail and even if you fail, you will just keep doing it.

Instead of being anxious and worried about what to do if you fail, you can change your way of thinking to just keep going even if you fail.

If you fail, try a new method. If you find it difficult to do, think of an easier way to do it.

Because of this way of thinking, people who are determined will get a little closer to their goals every day for as long as they live.

They are moving toward their goals every day without considering any other options. Therefore, they will steadily attract their wishes and goals to themselves.

Strangely enough, when you don’t think about other options and are not confused about how to live, many things will go well. Things will start to go the way you envisioned them.

And in order to make genuine decisions, it is important to clarify the priorities of your values within yourself.

You have to be clear about what is most important in your life. By doing so, you can use those priorities as your guide when making decisions.

Prioritize the values in your life

There are many people in this world who are called successful.

What they all have in common is that at a certain point in their lives, they have made a decision to become the kind of person they want to be.

They have made a decision that they are not going to stop and be satisfied with any outcome other than the one they have chosen. That was the real decision to change their lives.

The only way to change your life is to make a real decision.

Many people say they are going to make a decision, but in reality, things don’t change one bit.

It looks like they have made up their mind, but they lack the resolve to actually take action.

True determination means that once you have decided to make something happen, you will go ahead with it without any doubts or hesitation. You have to decide that this is the only path you can take in your life.

When you are in this state of 100% belief, you have the power to attract many things that will change your life for the better. When you are focused on one thing, your thoughts will become reality.

People who make decisions are moving in the right direction every day.

You will never know if and when you will achieve your goals until you actually take action. However, when you make a decision and decide that this is the only way you will live your life, you will naturally take action to make it happen, and you will get closer to your goal little by little every day.

It is very important that you are getting closer to your goal every day, even if it is just a small step. Even if it is just a small step, your life will be very different five years from now.

Even if it’s only for a year, you will be a different person in a year’s time than you are today.

For example, if you are a person who values being happy every day, think of something you can be grateful for at a certain time every day. It can be something as small as this. By continuing to do this small thing, five years from now you are bound to be grateful for everything and be happy every day.

This is a very simple way to just make a decision, but the reality is that most people can’t do it. This is because they don’t know what a real decision looks like.

Many people confuse a decision with a hope or a desire to quit smoking or to stop drinking because they have never made a decision before, so they don’t know what it is like.

People who make real decisions know exactly what it is they want.

That means that they know themselves well. This understanding of yourself means that you also understand your own desires, which leads to the ability to take action.

In order to make a decision, it is very important to clearly prioritize your values.

People who can’t make decisions are not clear about what is important in their lives. In other words, people who make decisions have a clear idea of what their life is about.

Of course, it does not mean that you will immediately achieve what you have decided. However, they do not become negative because they have not reached their goals, but they feel the significance of the fact that they are working towards their goals every day, and they are able to keep motivating themselves.

People who are able to turn their lives around on their own make decisions about the following three things in particular.

What do I need to focus on?
What is important to me?
What should I be doing?

By deciding these three things clearly, your life will be completely different five years from now.

And if you are able to make the decision, your attitude towards failure will also change.

Nothing in life ever ends in failure

This may sound like a contradiction out of the blue, but even if you make a decision and go straight down that path, you will have failure.

You will always experience problems, disappointments, walls and setbacks when you make a decision and follow your dreams. Failing in this way many times is a path that we all cannot avoid.

However, what is most important in life is how you react when you are confronted with such events that may cause you to feel negative.

Your actions and attitude when you fail will determine the rest of your life.

This is a famous story that many of you may know, but let me tell you about the story of Colonel Sanders of KFC.

It is said that Colonel Sanders started his chicken business when he was 65 years old.

At that time, he was feeling sad that he could only receive a small pension, so he decided to make money by contributing to the world with what he had. That was Chicken’s business plan.

He was already 65 years old and had no money or connections. However, he started to sell his chicken business idea.

He went door to door to sell his idea. However, none of the stores would take him seriously. Not only that, but he was even ridiculed for his trademark white suit.

However, he did not give up. Instead of getting depressed when he failed, he changed his mind and focused on how he could sell better in the next restaurant.

And after being rejected by 1009 restaurants, he was finally adopted by the 1010th restaurant.

Why was Colonel Sanders able to continue despite being rejected by more than 1,000 stores?

It was because he had a different attitude toward failure.

Instead of thinking, “It’s hopeless, let’s give up. Instead of thinking, “It’s over, let’s give up,” he kept thinking, “How can I make this work? And he was able to do this because he had made the decision to contribute to the world with his chicken.

This thought is what separates the successful from the not-so-successful.

Rich and successful people always have a way of thinking about how to make things work.

For example, there are people who want to double their income. So how can they double their current income? They look for a job that will allow them to earn that much, and then they try to choose the next one. And of course, the thought of how to make that happen continues.

As another example, let’s say someone hates going to work. Then how can they avoid going to work? You can create an environment where you can live without having to go to work. So how do you make that happen?

My days are not fun. Then how can I make it fun? I should do more of what I want to do. This may sound like a simple thought process, but it is very important.

In this way, it is important to always focus on solving the problem of how to do something, not the current problem.

If you take action, there will always be something to learn from it. Even if it is a failure.

From there, a path will open up and you will be able to do better the next time. If you try something and even if it doesn’t work out, if you can learn from it and apply it to the rest of your life, then you are no longer a failure, you are approaching success.

Success and failure always come together. Success and failure are one and the same. They don’t exist as one or the other. However, many people just give up at the point of failure without seeing the success on the other side of failure.

If you don’t fail, you won’t gain any experience. Don’t be depressed when you fail, keep learning from it, and you will surely succeed one day.

Conclusion

There are many people who want to change their lives and live a life where they feel happier.

The only way to change the life you are living now is to make a real decision. It sounds so simple, but it’s the truth.

It’s all about setting clear priorities for your values and then making decisions and taking actions accordingly.

Once you make the decision to move toward what you believe is most important to you, your life will steadily start moving in the right direction every day.

First,

What should I focus on?
What’s important to me?
What should I be doing?

Face yourself and think about these three things carefully.

Success is the result of correct decisions.

Correct decisions are the result of experience.

And experience is almost always the result of a wrong decision.