【The law of attraction】is to love yourself, it’s the beginning and it’s all

You may also hear the term “The law of attraction”.

There are many books and explanations about it, but I would like to think about this “The law of attraction” this time.

The first thing I want to tell you is that “The law of attraction” is not the law to get what you want.

It is the way of thinking and attitude toward our lives.

Now, I would like to summarize the following points this time.

What is true “The law of attraction”?

Many people think of the law of attraction as living an ideal life, getting an ideal lover, or making a lot of money. Certainly, I would be happy if I could do that.

However, even if they can get what they want now, they will become dissatisfied over time.

Let’s say, you got what you wanted, but when you use it a couple of times, you will find a reason that you are dissatisfied. Or even though you are able to be with someone you like, you will start to see some negative part of the person after a while.

In terms of life, even though you work hard to get a good life, once you get used to it, you are not satisfied with it, and you will want to live a better life.

That means, getting what we want doesn’t mean it’s true happiness.

What we are looking for is happiness and the goal is to get it. Fortunately, getting what you want and meeting your ideal partner is not the purpose of life.

The purpose of our lives is to get true happiness.

So how can you get and attract true happiness?

It starts with loving yourself. And always feel positive.

True happiness is not something material. This mind is the essence of the law of attraction.

Many people think that “The law of attraction” is about getting what they want.

In other words, you are trying to be happy with external factors by getting something that is outside, not what you have.

However, your happiness exists only within you. Happiness is what you feel, and happiness is just your subjectivity.

When you turn your consciousness to the inside of yourself and change there, you will naturally be able to obtain what you were looking for in the material outside.

First of all, it is most important that you feel happy, and that state also attracts happiness due to external factors that you wanted.

Everything depends on how you see things

If you only want to attract good things with “The law of attraction”, it’s wrong.

It is proof that you are trying to be happy by external factors.

As mentioned earlier, the essence of “The law of attraction”, true happiness, is not something that can be obtained by external factors such as the ideal thing or the ideal person.

Make yourself happy. This is the only way.

Find happiness in everything, affirm yourself, and always feel positive.

Being happy allows you to find happiness in small events that you never felt before, and naturally attracts good things.

The law of attraction is like the attitude towards life.

Try to look at your daily life. how do you feel every day? do you thank your family, friends, and colleagues? Don’t you just talk about complaints and criticisms?

Being able to attract depends on whether you are living in a positive mood.

First of all, affirm your way of life, personality, ability, everything.

Whether you can love yourself or the environment under any circumstances is the ability to discover happiness and the lovable strengths of people and the environment.

“The law of attraction” is not magic that only good things happen one after another. By changing how you see the world, you can have a happy life full of joy.

In that sense, “The law of attraction” is entirely self-directed and may have something in common with religion and philosophy.

Whether you feel happy or not depends entirely on your point of view.

“Success” is the same.

Only those who know the trivial things of everyday life that ordinary people do not feel, or who see them as opportunities, can “success”.

And the only people who can actually take action when they find an opportunity are those who are looking positively.

For example, suppose someone has a low income. However, there are many people who enjoy living every day even with that small income. It may not be materially wealthy. Still, the person who finds fun in his life and lives with happiness is a successful person. It all depends on how you look at things.

In other words, the way of looking at things can be said to be the state of mind. Action, success, happiness, everything is determined by this state of mind.

And to change the way you look at things, it’s very important to love yourself.

To love yourself

This love of oneself is the most important thing in “The law of attraction”. It is no exaggeration to say that it is all.

To love yourself is also to say self-affirmation. “The law of attraction” is closely related to this “self-affirmation.”

“Self-affirmation” means “recognizing and loving yourself as it is”

When you can love yourself as you are, you will always be positive. Therefore, good things are attracted one after another.

There are 4 points.

Focus on yourself and get to know yourself deeply

To love yourself begins with being more conscious of yourself.

Spend your time thinking about yourself, which you used to be distracted by others.

Try to affirm yourself by paying more attention to yourself, what kind of personality you are, what you like and dislike, what you like the time you are doing, and so on.

This is the first step to love yourself.

And if you can know yourself more than ever, admit it without denying it.

When we love someone, we want to know that person first. You start by knowing and acknowledging that person. Then you will actually start loving the person.

You need the same process for yourself.

Don’t lie to your feelings and live your own way

To love yourself, it is important to live your own way.

Do what you want to do, not do what you don’t want to do. That said, there are things you have to do, whether it’s work or not, even if you don’t want to. In such a case, you should find an exciting element in that action.

The idea of doing everything you want to do and the way you live will become your own way of life.

It is important for “growth” to live in your own way.
And when it comes to growth, you just think about increasing your knowledge and being able to do what you cannot do. It’s important, of course, but such efforts to increase knowledge and do what you can’t do are actions that make your life richer.

Make yourself a top priority

To love yourself, you must feel your happiness.

It may sound a bit extreme, but when you do something for someone, for example, you should make your choice based on whether you feel comfortable or not. This will be explained in detail later.

At any given time, the number one priority should be how you feel.

Your true happiness has nothing to do with others. This is the truth.

Recognize that just being present is worth it

Recognize how precious that your existance. That is the meaning of loving yourself.

Including ourselves, everything that exists in this world is valuable in its existence, has some influence on someone, and is useful for something.

The world is made up of all such balances, and each of us is a part of the world.

People who have this idea are always positive, love and appreciate the people and environment around them, so they are always in a state of attracting everything.

Reasons why your happiness should be your top priority

Some people may be wondering if their happiness really is okay to be their number one priority.

However, if you put off your happiness, you will be dissatisfied at some point.

If you think only about yourself, you may think that you are selfish. But think about it.

Whether you’re feeling positive because you’re having fun, or you’re spending your days in a negative mood enduring what you don’t want to do, which one has a positive effect on the people around you?

People will also treat people hard when they are not satisfied. You are just dissatisfied with your life and condition, but you start to direct that negative energy towards others.

You try to get the other person to make up for what you lack. Because you can’t feel happiness on your own, you will start trying to rely on someone to make you happy.

It is a state of being literaly dependent on others.

We have thought that we should prioritize everyone’s happiness over our own happiness, and having that way of thinking makes ourselves be better person.

On the other hand, those who live for themselves and are satisfied will also have a positive impact on their surroundings.

Since they are already satisfied, they no longer have to rely on someone to make themselves happy.

If you can recognize yourself the way you are, you will have more room in your heart and will be able to respect the other person.

Only when you are satisfied will you no longer be dependent on others and will be able to give to others.

And the more you love and satisfy yourself, the greater the positive impact you have on your surroundings. And it naturally gives happiness to those around us.

To love yourself and to satisfy yourself is not an egocentric way of thinking. First of all, let’s think about yourself first.

“The law of attraction” begins with loving oneself, and that is its everything.

Your happiness is

Not brought by others

You decide for yourself.

To have a heart that can love yourself and feel happy

It is what being happy really means.